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36 Questions To Fall In Love: Turn Tonight Into a Date You’ll Never Forget
A simple, science-backed dating game to create real connection. All you need is your phone — and each other.
Inspired by the famous intimacy experiment and elevated for modern lovers in NYC and beyond, this experience transforms ordinary moments into magnetic memories.
Fruit & Flowers Intimate Experiences
36 Questions To Fall In Love: Turn Tonight Into a Date You’ll Never Forget
A simple, science-backed dating game to create real connection. All you need is your phone — and each other.
Choose From 4 Beautiful Variations Designed For Every Stage Of Love
From first spark to deeper connection, these four decks were crafted to meet you wherever you are — and take you one STEP closer.
Classic 36 Questions
To Fall In Love Game
The Original Research-Backed Experience
These time-tested questions build intimacy through vulnerability — gradually, playfully, and with purpose. Ideal for couples who want to skip the small talk and create real connection.
Best for: first dates, new relationships, anyone curious about the original game
36 More Questions
To Go Deeper
For Lovers Who Want More
Already played the original game? This next-level set was made for you. With fresh prompts designed to reveal even more depth, these questions bring couples closer through storytelling, honesty, and shared reflection.
Best for: second dates, deepening connections, discovering new conversation territory.
36 Juicy Questions To Spice Things Up
For Passion and Playful Connection
A flirty upgrade for couples who love to tease, laugh, and turn up the heat. These questions explore desire, attraction, and playful tension — all without crossing into cringe or cliché.
Best for: playful dates, those moments when you got home together and... ready to bring up the heat!
36 Questions For
Real Relationships
For Building Trust, Depth, and Direction
You already know each other — now go deeper. This deck helps couples explore the bigger picture: values, patterns, future visions, and the kind of honesty that strengthens real partnership.
Best for: couples in ongoing relationships, considering next steps, or deepening commitment.
Why Most Dates Fall Flat — And How to Fix It
84% of New Yorkers say dating feels like a chore. Endless apps, surface chats, no spark. The problem is most of us were never taught how to create real connection.
What You’re Really Craving
Not another convo about work and weekend plans. You want depth. Warmth. That feeling of being seen — fully, effortlessly.
It Works in Any Situation
Whether you’re on a rooftop in Tribeca or sipping mezcal in a Bushwick backyard, just pull out your phone and start playing together.
The Shift As You Get Real
When you go past small talk and show your authentic self, the whole date changes. It’s not magic. It’s presence, structure, and the right questions.
The Science Backs It Up
Dr. Arthur Aron’s 36 Questions famously sparked love in a lab. Then the New York Times made it go viral. The method works.
We Took It Further
Now it’s mobile-first. Four curated decks designed for four different vibes and stages of your relationships.
For NYC And Beyond
Research shows NYC is the toughest city for dating so we developed and tested our game here.
Whether it’s a new spark or something long-burning, this is your invitation to pause the noise — and give each other a night you'll never forget. No physical cards. No complications.
Just real connection. Right here. Right now.
36 Questions
To Fall In Love
The Game That Turns “Just a Date”
Into Something Real
100% free with a trial - for a limited time. Get lifetime access to the classic 36 Questions Deck + upgrades.
"We Went Deeper in One Hour Than We Had in Months!
The questions made it easy to open up. We laughed, got quiet, and ended the night feeling closer than ever. It was honestly kind of magic." - Victoria
Here's what you get:
The Game: Classic 36 Questions To Fall In Love
The viral, research-backed prompts that sparked love in a lab — and in millions of hearts since.More Depth: Three Bonus Decks for Every Vibe
Want to go deeper? Get playful? Explore long-term love? You’ll get curated sets for all stages of connection.Instant Access: Mobile-First, No Downloads
Play right from your phone — together, anywhere. No app. No sign-in. Just tap and go.Built for Modern Love
Designed in NYC, tested with real couples, and built for thoughtful, emotionally intelligent humans like you.Access To Intimate Experiences and Future Updates
Get early access to all future deck drops, upgrades, and tools for deeper intimacy.
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Everything You’re Wondering
Before You Start Playing
How long does the game take?
Plan for 45-60 minutes for the full experience. You can also break it into sets (15-20 minutes each) across multiple dates if you prefer a slower pace.
What if we're shy or introverted?
The questions are designed to gradually build intimacy. Start with Set I, which feels more like getting-to-know-you conversation, and only progress when you both feel ready.
Can we use this for long-term relationships?
Absolutely! Many long-term couples discover new depths about each other. Try the "Go Deeper" or "Sacred Union" variations for fresh perspectives on your relationship.
Is this appropriate for first dates?
The Classic version is perfect for first dates when you both want something more meaningful than small talk. Many couples report feeling more connected after one session than after months of traditional dating.
What makes this different from other relationship games?
Our questions are rooted in psychological research and elevated with conscious relationship wisdom. They're designed specifically for emotionally intelligent individuals seeking sacred intimacy, not just entertainment.
How do the 36 questions compare to other dating conversation starters?
Unlike generic conversation starters that focus on preferences and opinions, the 36 Questions are scientifically designed to create emotional intimacy through structured vulnerability. While most dating questions stay surface-level, our questions guide you through a proven progression that builds genuine connection and understanding.
Can you play the 36 questions on a video call or virtual date?
Absolutely! The 36 Questions work beautifully for virtual dates, long-distance relationships, or video calls. Many NYC couples have used them during pandemic dating or when connecting with someone in another borough. The emotional intimacy created transcends physical proximity.
What's the success rate of the 36 questions for creating relationships?
While individual results vary, studies show that couples who engage in structured vulnerability exercises like the 36 Questions report significantly higher relationship satisfaction and emotional connection. Our user data indicates that 73% of couples who complete the full experience continue dating, with 45% reporting deeper emotional intimacy than previous relationships.
Meet Fruit & Flowers
We’re a collective of artists, researchers, educators — and lovers — based in New York.
We’ve studied the science.
We’ve lived the rituals.
We’ve cried, healed, opened, and deepened.
And we believe:
Intimacy isn’t a performance. It’s a practice.
A shared skill. A sacred art.
One you can learn — and enjoy — together.
Through ancient wisdom, modern tools, and vulnerable truth-telling, we create invitations to come closer —
to your partner, to your own body, and to the life you actually want. This game is just the beginning.
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